Barack Obama, Michelle Obama’s one parenting disagreement revealed

  • Michelle Obama said the two had one disagreement in parenting
  • Michelle said Barack Obama had to do it
  • The couple shares two daughters, Malia and Sasha

Former President Barack Obama hugs former first lady Michelle Obama as he is introduced during the Democratic National Convention Tuesday, Aug. 20, 2024, in Chicago. (AP Photo/Erin Hooley)

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(NewsNation) — Barack Obama and Michelle Obama had one disagreement when their daughters were babies: how to put them to sleep.

On her “IMO” podcast, Michelle Obama talked about the controversial sleeping method, the Ferber Method, with social psychologist Jonathan Haidt. This method, which was invented by physician Richard Ferber, advises parents to allow their child to cry for a specific amount of time before giving them comfort.

Obama admitted that she and her husband used this method, despite not agreeing on it at first. Michelle Obama said, “I didn’t want to do it. Barack did it, and I don’t know that I could have done it because I wasn’t sure about it — the notion that you just let the little person that you love cry and cry.”

The 61-year-old mother said she “couldn’t even deal” with the thought of her daughters crying, believing it could’ve had something to do with her estrogen levels after giving birth. “We set it up where Barack took the night shift,” she revealed. “I went to bed, which was helpful because it got me some sleep.”

Michelle Obama also revealed that she would have to cover her ears so she wouldn’t hear them crying at night.

“It took no longer than a week, and it was really after the first two nights, because we started early,” she explained.

The couple decided to try “Ferberization” after they weaned one of their daughters off breastfeeding, which would’ve been around four or five months.

“The sooner that you start … removing the symptom, the quicker you start to implement the action, the more responsive the child is,” the former first lady said.

Michelle and Barack Obama, 63, married in 1992 and had their first daughter, Malia, in 1998, and their second daughter, Sasha, in 2001.

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