Former President Barack Obama hugs former first lady Michelle Obama as he is introduced during the Democratic National Convention Tuesday, Aug. 20, 2024, in Chicago. (AP Photo/Erin Hooley)
(NewsNation) — Barack Obama and Michelle Obama had one disagreement when their daughters were babies: how to put them to sleep.
On her “IMO” podcast, Michelle Obama talked about the controversial sleeping method, the Ferber Method, with social psychologist Jonathan Haidt. This method, which was invented by physician Richard Ferber, advises parents to allow their child to cry for a specific amount of time before giving them comfort.
Obama admitted that she and her husband used this method, despite not agreeing on it at first. Michelle Obama said, “I didn’t want to do it. Barack did it, and I don’t know that I could have done it because I wasn’t sure about it — the notion that you just let the little person that you love cry and cry.”
The 61-year-old mother said she “couldn’t even deal” with the thought of her daughters crying, believing it could’ve had something to do with her estrogen levels after giving birth. “We set it up where Barack took the night shift,” she revealed. “I went to bed, which was helpful because it got me some sleep.”
“It took no longer than a week, and it was really after the first two nights, because we started early,” she explained.
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Former President Barack Obama hugs former first lady Michelle Obama as he is introduced during the Democratic National Convention Tuesday, Aug. 20, 2024, in Chicago. (AP Photo/Erin Hooley)
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CHICAGO, ILLINOIS – AUGUST 20: Former U.S. President Barack Obama (L) greets former first lady Michelle Obama as he arrives to speak on stage during the second day of the Democratic National Convention at the United Center on August 20, 2024 in Chicago, Illinois. Delegates, politicians, and Democratic Party supporters are gathering in Chicago, as current Vice President Kamala Harris is named her party’s presidential nominee. The DNC takes place from August 19-22. (Photo by Chip Somodevilla/Getty Images)
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The couple decided to try “Ferberization” after they weaned one of their daughters off breastfeeding, which would’ve been around four or five months.
“The sooner that you start … removing the symptom, the quicker you start to implement the action, the more responsive the child is,” the former first lady said.
Michelle and Barack Obama, 63, married in 1992 and had their first daughter, Malia, in 1998, and their second daughter, Sasha, in 2001.